Most women share one complaint about sex - they don't get enough foreplay. Most men prefer to cut right to the sex. But foreplay is essential. Without it, many women won't achieve an orgasm. Here are few ways to extend your foreplay time:
Message in a Bottle: Foreplay can start hours before you have sex. Leave your lover sexy notes in his briefcase. Fill his voice mail with messages telling him exactly what you plan on doing to him later that night. Send him a raunchy email.
Rub a Dub Dub in the Tub: Draw a warm bath. Nitya LaCroix, author of The Art of Tantric Sex, recommends adding two drops of patchouli oil, three drops of sandalwood oil and three drops of lavender to the water. Hop in with your lover. These scents will increase feelings of sensuality and help you both relax.
Look, Ma. No Hands: Tell your man to undress. Then give him a massage without using your hands. Rub his body with your feet, face and breasts. Squeeze his chest between your legs.
Blind Leading the Blind: Cover his eyes with a silk tie. Tempt him by breathing, but not touching, his body. Advanced students in the art of seduction may want to both blindfold their lover and their own eyes. You'll both wonder where, and what, you'll touch next.
Pickpocket your Lover: Tell your lover you need a quarter and then put your hand in his pants pocket. Act like you're fishing around for change, but rub his penis instead. When you strike gold, say, "What a big wad of money."
Striptease: A man is a visual creature, and if you're taking off your clothes, he will be thrilled. We guarantee he will not laugh. So toss off your inhibitions with your bra. Helpful props for a striptease include a chair, feather boa, and music. To mimic the real deal, have him stuff money in your thongs.
